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Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. Love is unconditional. Love is a powerful feeling that everyone needs to enjoy life. In life, people need each other to survive and that is where love comes in. Everyone out there needs love. Love makes someone feel calm, relaxed, special, collected and it makes someone see life differently. Some people have given up on love because they met the wrong people in the past. This is not an excuse to entirely give up on love because love is a beautiful thing that can happen to any living human being.
In other to find true love in the most difficult situations, you need to take your God, your heart, instincts and your brain to differentiate between real love and time wasting.
1. God: God is love. He gave out his only begotten son Jesus Christ to die for our sins. That is an unconditional love the father gave to us the children. This love bond teaches us that you can definitely love some one unconditionally to the extent of losing your life for the person. This is what Jesus Christ exhibited for mankind when he lived on earth. Jesus Christ made us understand that we should love our neighbors as ourselves. This is one of the greatest love that Mankind has ever experienced. As far as you love your neighbors like yourself, you will never do wrong to your neighbors because you will take them like yourself. Once God takes charge of your life, you will experience a cha
2. Your Heart: As a human being, when your heart beats, it should always be for the right persons. The heart has been recognized right from ancient times that it controls affection and love. The heart is represented in different publications as the symbol of love. You have to be very careful who you give your heart to. When you give your heart to some people, they will break your heart and cause you emotional pains that might last for a life time. When giving out your heart, you have to be careful so that you don’t face heart break by giving it out to the wrong people.
3. Instincts: it is an innate, typically fixed pattern of behaviour in animals in response to certain stimuli. Caution simply means care taken to avoid troubles or danger. In whatever you do in life, always listen to that inner voice cautioning you. If you want to give your heart out to someone and your instincts cautions you, listen to that inner voice and give it a chance. If your instincts accepts someone, give the person a trial to show you real love.
4. Brain: The brain is one of the largest and most complex organs in the human body. It is made up of more than 100 billion nerves that communicate in trillions of connections called synapses. This is one part of your body that you need to carry along when finding love. You need to think and bbe sure of who you really want to fall in love with. When finding true love, do not make it a general behavior of dating everyone you come across. Just by having a very simple conversation with someone, it will tell you a lot about the person. It will tell you if you can cope with the person or not.